Approaching A Woman: 14 Tips and Advice
1. Ask a Question – No matter where you are, you can always ask a woman her opinion. Standing in line at the deli and she’s ordering a Pastrami sandwich? Ask, “Have you had the Pastrami before?” If she has, then the next logical question is, “How is the Pastrami here?” This type of scenario gets the conversation going. 2. Smile – Put her at ease with a sincere trustworthy smile and NOT an insincere one. A form of silent communication, a smile can be one of the strongest expressions you can give to someone. 3. Be Positive – Being positive when approaching women allows you to start the conversation off right as well as find it if she’s got a positive attitude in return. 4. Steady – Being steady is being sure of yourself. Being steady is being reliable. Being steady is being unwavering in your beliefs. Being steady is being dependable. 5. Eye Contact – Look a woman in the eyes to make her know you are listening to her. Don’t be creepy though. Don’t make her move her head around to get or keep your attention. 6. Listen – When talking to women really listen to what they have to say. Don’t be afraid to leave a bit of silence to understand what they’re talking about, however too much silence can come off as if you deliberately think how you’re going to respond. 7. Nervous – Know that a lot of men have been nervous around women. Don’t let your nerves allow you to miss opportunities meeting and talking to women. Being nervous can show up as a shaky voice, twitchy eyes, random are and leg movements. 8. Not Too Close – Don’t move in too physically close when approaching women. This can be a complete turn off for most women and sends signals that you’re movin’ too fast and might be interested in one thing – sex. 9. Be Aware – Women get hit on a lot. Know that a lot of women hear the same thing from men so stay away from cliche pickup lines. 10. Join a Group – One of the easiest ways to meet women and easier to approach women is joining groups that everyone has the same interests in. 11. Humor – Everyone loves jokes and someone who’s naturally funny can make women laugh. It’s hard for everyone to be humorous but you can work at it enough to make it work for you while talking to a woman. 12. Confidence – Women love men who are confident. Men who are confident don’t NEED reassurance or their ego stroked constantly. Look into her eyes in a way that will make her feel confident and not afraid of you. 13. Spontaneous – All of the above might make you feel uptight or that everything has to be planned and perfect – NOT. Do you want to go home every night and do the same thing all the time and the same thing on the weekends? DON’T!! Women love men who can be spontaneous and do something different for a change. 14. Conversation – Women love to talk and most men don’t, that’s why it can be hard to approach women and just start talking away. There are plenty of opportunities for you to practice. Don’t feel like you have to impress a woman during conversation. Again if you’ve read this whole article it’s about her and showing that you are interested in her and what she has to say. A great way to learn is watch couples who seem to be having successful conversations and are getting along. Watch how she reacts to the man.